Valeria Surk

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Navigating Borders: A Global Upbringing

Introduction

From the cobblestone streets of Vilnius, Lithuania, to the vibrant landscapes of Estonia, Kyrgyzstan, and the U.K., my life has been a tapestry woven with threads of diverse cultures and enriching experiences. Yet, the narrative takes a transformative turn at the age of fifteen when my family and I, driven by the pursuit of the American Dream, embarked on a journey to the United States as refugees. However, the story doesn't end there. Post-U.S., I ventured to Mexico, Singapore, and Thailand, making each move in my 20s independently, unafraid of any challenges, always possessing the confidence that I can make anything work. This is the saga of a global upbringing, forged through resilience, adaptability, and an unwavering pursuit of a better life.

Background

Growing up across various countries was not just a geographical adventure; it was a profound cultural odyssey. Each place etched its unique mark on my identity, shaping a perspective that transcends borders. The ability to adapt, appreciate diverse cultures, and connect with individuals from various walks of life became the foundational pillars of my character.

Turning Point: Pursuing the American Dream and Beyond

At fifteen, my family's quest for a brighter future led us to the United States. The move wasn't just a change of location; it was a leap of faith into the unknown. As refugees, we confronted uncertainties and challenges, but the dream of a more promising future fueled our determination. The United States became the canvas on which we painted our aspirations and ambitions.

However, the story doesn't conclude with the American Dream. Post-U.S., I took charge of my journey, venturing to Mexico, Singapore, and Thailand in my 20s. Each move was a testament to my fearlessness in the face of challenges, confident that I could navigate any unfamiliar terrain.

Takeaway: Resilience, Adaptability, and Independence

The global upbringing gifted me a profound lesson—the resilience to confront challenges and the adaptability to flourish in diverse environments. It ingrained in me the understanding that home is not confined to a spot on the map; it's where the heart draws strength from diversity.

In a world occasionally inclined to construct walls, my journey stands as a testament to the bridges that can be forged through understanding, acceptance, and the celebration of diversity. Navigating borders has not only shaped my past but has become the compass guiding my future endeavors.

As I reflect on the twists and turns of my global upbringing, I'm reminded that the journey is as significant as the destination.